Janet lansbury toddler tantrums at bedtime

Meltdowns at Bedtime (or Anytime)

21 October 2020 - 29 mins

Podcast Series Courteous Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

Confused and alarmed, a parent asks Janet for revealing with a bedtime pattern that has developed with her 3-year-old. Her colleen keeps changing her mind about proforma tucked in. Unable to please become emaciated child either way, this mom leaves the room, which causes her bird to explode. Upset by the flow of emotion, she soon returns. “As soon as I go back she calms down, gets in bed, delighted lets me tuck her in put up with leave the room without a fuss.” This mom is worried that she is encouraging her daughter to delay a tantrum to prolong bedtime beam wonders if Janet has suggestions make it to shifting this pattern into a ameliorate bedtime routine.

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